Hair

  • How to do knotless Braids at Home With Video Tutorial

    Here’s how to do knotless Braids at Home!

    As a mom of three Black kids, I’ve always had the goal to learn to braid but always found it intimidating. When I first tried braiding my older daughter’s hair, she was two years old, and it looks so horrible that I took it out immediately even though it took me an hour and a half to do them. I haven’t given up on myself though, I’ve been pushing through, and quarantine presented me time and the opportunity to practice. My daughter asked last summer for pink and purple braids, and since I didn’t want to damage her hair by coloring it, I decided to try doing her braids with braiding hair. I wanted to ensure that I used a method that wouldn’t damage her hair, so I researched and learned that knotless braids are the healthiest option for her hair. I watched lots of videos to know how to do knotless braids and started trying it. It’s a lot simpler than I thought it would be, and she always loves the results when I do knotless braids at home.

    Why Knotless Braids?

    Traditionally, braids started with a knot to attach the braiding hair, but this method put lots of pressure on the hair follicles and the scalp. It was also usually done tightly, so the hair doesn’t slip out and looks neater. Knotless braids, as the name infers doesn’t start with a knot. Instead, you start by braiding the real hair and attach the braiding hair at a later point. This removes all of the issues that knot braids can cause, like hair loss, trauma to the scalp, hair breakage, and other issues. Plus, knotless braids are more comfortable for children.

    You will need:

    • Braiding Hair: You can choose between purchasing synthetic or human braiding hair. I use braiding hair that I buy from Amazon and soaked for one day in Apple Cider Vinegar to ensure my daughter doesn’t break out or find them itchy.
    • A fine-toothed comb: I struggle with parting my child’s hair in straight rows for box braids, so a fine-tooth comb aka rat tail comb, is a must-have for me, and I love this one with the metal tail as it gives a clean part. I purchased this packet of three from Amazon.
    • Edge Control Gel: Edge control gel is a must-have for me to ensure that hair looks neat and there are no flyaways. I’ve like the Cantu Edge Control and Carol’s Daughter because they give hold without leaving the white residue and crunchiness some other brands leave. I usually order them from Amazon or pick them up at Target.
    • Gel: I use the Let’s Jam gel to smooth my daughter’s hair when braiding it; it’s inexpensive and works well.
    • Butterfly clamps: I use these butterfly clamps to separate the hair into sections.
    • Edge Brush: This small edge brush is perfect for getting shorter hairs and baby hairs in place.
    • Blow dryer (optional): Sometimes, I use a blowdryer to stretch my daughter’s hair before doing knotless braids. I use this blow dryer.
    • Heat protectant (optional): If you decide to use a blow dryer, I would suggest also using a heat protectant to prevent heat damage. I like the Cantu Heat Protectant and have been using it for a few years now.
    • Styling foam: I use this Cantu styling foam while braiding her hair to seal it from frizz and for shine, and I also use it to refresh her braids daily.
    • Silk Bonnet, pillow, or scarf: This style will take you a few hours to complete, so be sure to protect the style with a satin or silk bonnet, pillow, or scarf when you sleep that will keep the braids looking fresh.
    • Small rubber bands: I add small rubber bands at the ends of all of the braids. Since we use braids with hot water settings, they tend to fall out when we dissolve or fall off after they’re set.

    Step-by-Step Instructions

    1. Wash and deep condition hair: I usually do this the day before braiding her braids to break down the entire braiding process’s length time.
    2. Detangle hair with a wide-tooth comb or detangling brush (I love this one) and separate hair into sections with butterfly clips.
    3. Air dry or blow dry hair on low heat settings using a heat protectant product. Whichever option you choose, try to stretch the hair in preparation for braiding.
    4. Part hair into small equal box sections and divide braiding hair to match those sections’ size. You can purchase one of these braiding hair stands to ensure the hair separated hair doesn’t get tangled.
    5. I start braiding at the back of her head and work my way to the front.
    6. Part the hair into sections of the desired style, add edge control gel to the roots of real hair, then begin to braid hair; after about an inch, hold the last piece with one finger and then add the first piece of braiding hair.
    7. Continue braid until the braiding hair is attached, then add the second piece of braiding hair and continue braiding.
    8. Add more gel to natural hair as needed; the gel helps prevent flyaways and makes the braid look neat.
    9. When you’ve completed each braid, add a rubber band to the end to prevent it from unraveling.
    10. Move on to the next section and repeat.

    Knotless Braids Video Tutorial

    Still, a little bit intimidated about doing knotless braids at home? or need some further guidance? Check out this video tutorial to see how I do my daughter’s hair. I’ve personally found video tutorials to be most helpful in learning how to do knotless braids.

    I recorded the entire braiding process in this video, so I hope it’s helpful to you if you’re new to knotless braids. My daughter loves wearing knotless braids, and this style makes life easier for me as I don’t have to do her hair daily. I’ve notices that her hair has gotten much thicker since we started doing knotless braids.

    Also, save this video on how to refresh knotless braids, this method has allowed me the stretch out her braids to last longer while looking neat.

    Leave any of your questions below!

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    Everything You Need to do Two Cornrows with Braiding Hair at Home

  • Everything You Need to do Two Cornrows with Braiding Hair at Home

    If you’ve been following me on Instagram, you may have noticed that I’ve been experimenting with my hairstyles a lot more lately. My hair is in that in-between stage as it grows back, and I decided I should have fun with it instead of obsessing about its length. Plus, I have time during quarantine to improve my braiding skills (did you see the unicorn box braids I did in my daughter’s hair?) For the last few weeks, I’ve been rocking two cornrows with braiding hair, and it’s becoming my favorite style even though I want to move on and try Popsmoke braids next. I’ve gotten a few DMs about this hairstyle, and while I am not a professional and I try to make it look as natural as possible, I wanted to share everything you need to do two cornrows with braiding hair at home so you can rock this style too. 

    Everything You Need to do Two Cornrows with Braiding Hair at Home

    Braiding Hair

    You can choose to use human or synthetic hair, depending on your preference. I purchased this pre-stretched Kanekalaon braiding hair from Amazon. There are many options on Amazon, so be sure to read all of the reviews, so you don’t waste your money. I like this hair because it didn’t tangle easily. I use one packet per braid depending on the thickness of your hair; you may use more or less. 

    Edge Control Gel

    This style wouldn’t work without a good edge control gel! While it’s necessary for my edges, it’s also great to blend the braiding hair with my natural hair, parting my hair, and give this look a polished finish. One issue I always have with edge control gel is that it flakes, and the only one I’ve tried so far that doesn’t flake is Cantu Edge Control gel. It also doesn’t get so hard that it damages or dries out your hair. That means you may have a few flyaways, but that’s fine with me to ensure my hair’s health, especially along my hairline. 

    Everything You Need to do Two Cornrows with Braiding Hair at Home

    Styling Gel

    In addition to edge control gel, I use a styling gel to braid my hair. This is important to smooth my hair and get rid of any frizz, especially since I do not blow dry my hair to stretch it.

    Edge Brush

    I mentioned in this post that I was going to move on from using a toothbrush and purchasing edge brushes. I’m so glad I did because this edge brush comes in so handy for this style. 

    Denman Brush

    If you’ve been around here long enough you know that I am a diehard fan of the powers of a Denman brush, it can be used to make just about any style work on thick natural hair. 

    Hair Jewelry

    This is optional, but if you want to have fun, add some hair jewelry to your braids. I prefer to add them to the synthetic hair to avoid tangles in my real hair; I purchased this variety box from Amazon. 

    That’s everything I use to do two cornrows with braiding hair at home. Let me know if you plan to try this style. 

    Also check out this mini tutorial video on Instagram or TikTok!

    @rattlesandheels

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  • How to do a Wash and Go on Short Natural Hair

    How to do a wash and go on short natural hair.

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    I’ve worn my hair natural now for the last 9 years! While I’ve had some really beautiful braid-out styles, my hair has always looked best in a wash and go style and it’s been really easy for me to style and maintain. As many of you know, I cut my hair last November so I wanted to share how to do a wash and go on short natural hair. I always get DMs about what products I use as well so I wanted to share that with you too.

    Tutorial Video

    The easiest way for me to share how to do a wash and go on short natural hair was to create a video tutorial. You can view it here! Remember to always start with soaking wet hair.

    This style usually lasts for five to seven days and I refresh it every other day. I preserve it by sleeping on a satin pillowcase. I’ve found that it’s better to refresh my curls using the same product I styled it with and fluffing it with an afro pick like this one. You can also use a satin scarf or bonnet at night, it’s your choice but the satin pillowcase like this one works best for me.

    Products I currently use to do my wash and go:

    Shampoos:

    As I am Coconut Cowash

    Eden BodyWorks Peppermint Shampoo

    Conditioners:

    Eden BodyWorks Deep Conditioner

    Mielle Organics Deep Conditioner

    Leave-In Conditioner

    Kinky Curly Knot Today

    Styling Gels:

    Ecostyler

    Kinky Curly Curling Custard

    Cantu Edge Control Gel

    Camille Rose Natural Curl Maker

    Cantu Thermal Shield Heat Protector

    Tools:

    Denman brush

    Hair Dryer with Diffuser

    Wide-tooth comb

    I hope this post is helpful and let me know if you have any questions about natural hair care or styling. As my hair grows back, I will be happy to take all of you along for the journey.

  • The Truth About My Second Big Chop

    I finally ready to share the truth about my second big chop! My Second Big Chop StoryMy Second Big Chop StoryEvery fall and winter I struggle with my natural hair! A quick wash and go in the summer turns into the nightmare of holding a blowdryer in my hand forever trying to diffuse my hair, sitting under a hairdryer long enough to get backaches and still going out with it semi-wet. My hair has always taken a long time to dry, even when it was relaxed. Over the last year, one thing I had less and less of was time to dry it. Now that I have three little kids, I found myself either wearing a hat or my hair was undone and messy way too often. After trying hard to maintain my curls and failing over and over, I decided that it would be best to just cut it. I wanted to look and feel chic not shabby on a daily basis and not just on the days when I had time to dry it. I had tried alternatives like braid-outs and twist-out but they never worked for my hair or lifestyle. I needed to cut it, at least for this season in my life, I needed the freedom of short hair.

    Second Big Chop

    I didn’t know where to start though, my first big chop 8 years ago is now a blur in my memory. I was so focused on growing my natural hair that I totally missed out on loving my short hair, I wanted things to be different for my second big chop. After spending countless hours on Pinterest, looking for inspiration I decided that I wanted a tapered cut, an edgy haircut, and highlights felt perfect for my personality.

    I was so excited that I literally skipped into the salon but my hair cut looked way too basic for me. It didn’t look like a tapered cut and I was really disappointed. Fortunately, the salon had an adjustment period and I was able to take advantage of that time to get my hair exactly the way I wanted it. My stylist did an amazing job the second time around and I love the cut now.

    That said, doing a second big chop was such a drastic change that I am still adjusting to it. I hate to think of myself as one of those girls who is attached to their hair but I guess I’m more attached than I cared to admit to myself. I can’t say I fully regret cutting my hair because it looks good more often and bad hair days are fewer but I am having a tough time adjusting to not having my hair to frame my face or hide my big head.

    I wanted to be transparent about my feelings about my hair, loving the style but sometimes not so much on myself.  I know that I’m not the only woman who feels this way after a first, second or third big chop. However, I am the woman who will push through these feelings and address my insecurities head on because I know this will help my personal development and my two little girls (and son) who are watching.

    Second Big Chop

    Enough with the deep stuff, I plan to try out different styles and have fun with my hair. I like to joke that I’m too boring when it comes to hair and Rachel Dolezal has worn styles than me. I’m working on changing that and having fun with my hair in 2019.

    Have you ever done a big chop? How many times did you do it?

  • Afro-textured Haircut | Kids Deva Cut Before and After

    Are you thinking about taking your kid for a Deva Cut? If so I wanted to share my daughter’s experience and her Deva Cut before and after pictures.

    I’ve meant to take my older daughter for a professional haircut for a few years, and I kept putting it off. There was uncertainty mixed with not knowing how comfortable she would be. Last fall I went to Devachan salon in SoHo for my first Deva Cut, and my hair shape turned out so fabulous that I decided to take my seven-year-old daughter in for one as well.

    devacut before and after

    Who was her stylist and how did I select her?

    My stylist was fantastic, but she wasn’t available on the weekend I wanted to take my daughter, so I went with Melody who was suggested.

    [Tweet “Thinking about taking your kid with afro-textured hair for a haircut? Here’s my daughter’s Deva Cut before and after pictures and salon experience. #naturalhair “]

    Melody was very professional and laid back. I completely forgot that I needed to bring her in with her hair prepped for her hair cut free of any product. Total mom brain moment so she decided that to ensure that my daughter keeps most of her length she would wash her hair first and then cut it after.

    kids devacut before and after

    What did they do?

    Those of you who follow my Instagram stories saw the fancy sinks at Devachan salon. That’s one of the things that I love about the experience at their salon. We all know that tightly coiled hair needs a ton of love and attention and you can truly relax while laying down to style your hair.

    What products did they use?

    Detangling my daughter’s hair took some time, but they were very patient and gentle with her strands. They used the Deva Curl No Poo Decadence to cleanse her hair and scalp and deep conditioned with Heaven in Hair (my favorite DevaCurl product).

    How did they dry her hair?

    Next, she sat under the dryer for about 30 minutes. I was impressed by her patience through this process, but she was enjoying the pampering.

    Once her hair was dry, Melody went through curl by curl and cut her hair.

     

    How is the results?

    The shape is lovely, and my daughter told me that she loves her hair this short. I love that she loves her hair so much and with the haircut wash day has been much more comfortable at home too, I wish I had done it much earlier.

    Would you go back?

    I’m not sure if I’m going to maintain this shape by taking her for a haircut biannually or annually. Deva Chan doesn’t have a children’s rate for haircuts which I wish they did (I would take my son too). That said, I’ve paid much more at places that weren’t as nice and was disappointed with how my hair turned out, so I’m going to stick with them for now.

    You can go to my Instagram stories and watch video clips of the entire experience under “Natural Hair” highlights.

    Deva Chan Salon Kid Before Deva Cut
    This was her hair before her hair cut.

     

    deva cut before and after
    This was her hair after her hair cut.

    kids devacut before and after

    Do you take your kids for professional haircuts? If so, how often?

     

     

  • Four Year Big Chop Anniversary Reflections (VIDEO)

    How I felt after big chop
    Cutting all of my relaxed hair off in my bathroom in May 2010 was probably one of the bravest things that I’ve done so far in my life. I know that a lot of you are transitioning or have relaxed hair and considering doing the big chop. That’s why I wanted to share my experience in this short video.

    Feel free to share your experience with the Rattles and Heels community if you’ve done the big chop. What motivated you to do it? Did you want to return to relaxing your hair? Did you embrace your natural hair right away?

  • Grow Natural Hair Long

    I wanted to share my experience of what’s worked for me to grow my natural hair long from a Big Chop. As well as some of the practices and products that I believe have helped daughter to retain length.

    If you just did the big chop or you’re in that awkward stage where you can’t do any styles but all you really want to do is a ponytail like every other girl at the gym. This post is for you!

    If you have a daughter or son whose hair seems to have hit a growth plateau. I’ve been there too!

    I’m here to tell you that you and/or your child’s natural hair will grow long.

    I know a lot of us natural girls run around talking about how awesome the Big Chop (B.C) experience is (and it is) but we all have had those days Post B.C when our hair wouldn’t cooperate and we get impatient and start feeling like why wouldn’t our hair just grow already.

    Natural Long Hair

    Yeah, I’ve been there. It happens to all of us. That moment when you start wishing you chose to transition instead of cutting all your hair off, at least you could of slicked your hair back into a ponytail.

    When I did my big chop my natural hair length goal was to grow my hair to the length where I could achieve a kinky curly bob. I didn’t have any lofty length ambition. That was four years ago, I think I was pretty happy with my curly bob by year one. Since then my hair’s grown a lot more while I wasn’t paying attention to growth and surpassed my goal. A few weeks ago, I measured my hair and found out it’s 16″ to 17″ when I was estimating around 12″. So what exactly did I do to grow my hair? Well, I didn’t do anything special to encourage growth but these are the things that I did to hold on to the growth I got.

    Regular Trims

    I believe that one of the reasons that I’ve been able to retain length is because I focused on maintaining healthy ends. It’s really tempting to hold on to weathered ends when you have length goals but if you have unhealthy ends they will start to break off and you will lose more hair than if you got your hair trimmed. In only the first year after doing my Big Chop, I got my ends trimmed four times. Yes, four times because I understood from my permed days that it’s difficult to retain length on damaged ends. So I encourage you to get your ends trimmed. You don’t have to do it as often as I did (I was still on my permed hair trim schedule) but frequently examine the condition of your ends and if you notice any damage, schedule a trim.

    Frequent Oil Massages

    A few months after doing my big chop, I experienced my first bout of postpartum shedding and I began to do frequent oil massages with Brahmi Oil and Jamaican Black Castor Oil. Besides the fact that scalp massages feel incredible, my scalp needed as much love as my hair itself especially after the trauma of hair shedding. So if you’ve experienced any loss due to tight styles, weaves, braids or like me postpartum shedding start massaging ASAP.

    Keep Hair Moisturized

    Every week I religiously deep conditioned my hair during this period. My favorite deep conditioners to keep my short hair moisturized and shiny were Herbal Essences Hello Hydration mixed with Extra Virgin Olive  Oil and Jessicurl Deep Conditioner.

    Henna

    While I don’t believe that Henna will help grow natural hair long, I believe that my use of it earlier in my natural hair journey helped me to retain length as it made my hair much stronger. Henna is a ayurvedic hair dye. I used the one in the powder form, it dyes your hair into a dark burgundy color that’s rarely visible unless you have light colored hair, in the sunlight or have done several applications. If you can stand the messiness and have the time I highly recommend it. Personally, I no longer do henna treatments because I don’t have the time.  When I did, I used the Jamila Henna which I purchased on Amazon, mixed it with Herbal Essences Hello Hydration and then put in the fridge for a few hours. Then I applied it to freshly washed hair and kept it on my hair (covered with two plastic caps and a towel) for 2-4 hours. When I rinsed it out, I did a follow-up deep conditioner treatment. Henna adds weight to your strands so depending on your hair texture you may notice that your curls seem looser. While this was not my experience, I did notice that my wash and go had a lot less frizz and was much more defined. If you would like more information on henna, let me know and I can do an entire post on my experience and method I used.

    Simple Regimen

    During the first year of my natural hair journey, I kept my regimen really simple. I wore my hair either in a wash and go or braided up covered with a hat. I really feel that it’s important to not do “too much” as detangling daily, tugging on hair, taking down tight braids and twists affect your ability to grow natural hair long. I’ve found the same for my daughter’s hair. Once, I stopped styling her hair every day, using ponytail holders and focused on moisturizing her hair daily I saw that she started retaining more length.

    Tips to Grow Natural Hair Long

    Little to No Heat

    Too much heat on relaxed or natural hair can affect your ability to keep the length that you attain as it dries out your strands and dry strands are more likely to break. I air-dried my hair most of the time, while I know this is not always possible whenever I can’t air-dry I reach for an overhead dryer before a blow dryer.

    Beware of using materials that would dry or break your hair

    Sometimes we overlook the materials that our hats, scarves, hoodies, pillowcases are made of. If you plan on growing your hair out, you must start paying close attention to this. Purchase a satin pillow case as your satin scarf can slip off during the night. If you’re going to wear a hat or hoodie always cover your hair with your scarf first. One thing that I never do is use bath towels on my hair and recently I stopped using microfiber towels as well. I’ve found that they cause my hair to tangle as it gets stuck on them. I’ve had success drying our hair using t-shirts and I’m going to stick to that. The drawback of using t-shirts is that you may need to use a few as they are not very absorbent.

    Treat your body well

    Just like healthy skin starts on from the inside out, the same logic applies to your hair. During my Post B.C period, I took a prenatal vitamin daily and tried to drink lots of water. There are a ton of vitamins on the market that promises to stimulate hair growth and I am not sure if they are effective (or if they will also cause you to grow a mustache haha) but I used prenatal vitamins or Cod Liver Oil. Plus my diet consists of plenty fish and the Omega-3 Fatty Acids are fantastic for healthy hair.

    I hope that these tips help you along your natural hair journey and to grow your natural hair long. Remember not to fuss, before you know it you hair will grow past your goals.

     What’s your natural hair goal? Do you care more about length or maintaining healthy hair?

  • Let Your Child Take The Lead In Natural Hair Care

    Dealing with kids natural hair
    One of the many things that I admire about my daughter is her strong leadership skills. She’s a natural leader. She’s the kid who organizes all the other kids at the playground within 5 minutes of arriving. Most times she’s the youngest. She’s fearless and I admire and encourage her. So when it comes to doing her hair, I’ve decided to allow her to her take the lead.

    Playground leader

    While she isn’t of the age to really care about how her hair is styled. She really cares about the accessories used. Sometimes she would request a bow, a headband or even roses. I’ve started to allow her to make that decision. I don’t always agree but I quietly remind myself that it’s not my hair. Most of us moms are bossy. We make plans and decisions for our children and never ask for their input. No, that was just me?

    Natural Mother and daughter
    Over the past month and a half, my daughter started crying whenever I shampooed her hair. This behavior seemed to start out of nowhere but when I would ask her why she would just continue to cry. I always asked her in the moment and I guess she was too flustered to answer. So one day when I wasn’t doing her hair I asked her to share with me why she all of a sudden hated washing her hair so much. She told me that it’s because she doesn’t like her back to get wet (I wash her hair in the kitchen sink).  She made it clear that she didn’t like water on her back. So we talked about solutions and compromised on using two towels over her back instead of one. This small change has made washing her hair much easier. During the detangling process like most kids she cooperates better if she’s distracted so we put on a Disney movie for her.

    When she explained to me that she didn’t like the smell of a new product  that I started using in her hair. I stopped using it, I didn’t bother to argue that it worked really well for moisturizing her dry hair. I just respected her wishes.

    Conditioner Natural Hair Kids
    She started asking more about the products that I used in her hair. What exactly is shampoo and why am I using it? Why do you have to put conditioner in her hair? She wants to smell everything, mix the DIY treatments and to know everything about every step of the process. This led me to realize and that even at her age, she has a sense of ownership of herself, her hair and her identity. Since, I  stand proudly at the playground watching her organize the other kids then I must encourage her everytime she exhibits her leadership skills even if it means that I too need to follow her lead when it comes to her hair.

    MOther daughter natural hair
    I think a lot of us struggle with our kids hair because we don’t give them enough authority over their hair. We don’t make it something that they care about. Hair is just something that grows on their heads that we manage. I challenge you to allow them take ownership. You’ll be surprised that you’ll see a change in their attitude towards styling and caring for it.

    Your little one will be a happy leader.
    Natural Kids
    Do you allow your child take the lead or give input on their hair care and styling?

  • Kids Natural Hair Accessories Lookbook {VIDEO}

    Out with the old and in with the new. Spring is the perfect season to have fun with accessories in your daughter’s natural hair. This lookbook features some fun and cute accessories for children that’s accessible for you moms to pick up. Check out the video below featuring my daughter.

    Accessories featured in the video:

    Spring Bloom Flower Crown – Charlotte Russe
    Golden Flowers Crown – Charlotte Russe
    Heart Crown – Osh Kosh Kids
    Bunny Ears – Osh Kosh Kids
    Festive Bow – Esty
    Feather Cool – Macys

    Disclaimer: This video is not sponsored.

  • Favorite Products For Wash and Go (Video)

    Favorite Products for wash and go

    It’s back ladies! My beloved wash and go. My natural hair is back to it’s default setting and looking incredible (forgive my corkiness). I’m just really feeling myself after wearing braids and braid-outs all winter. On Sunday, when I did my hair it was like that first nice day of Spring when all the girls break out their shorts and let the sun hit their pale legs.

    Wash and Go

    So, with that out of the way, here’s my favorite products for wash and go:

    Pre-Poo

    Trader Joe’s Organic Virgin Coconut Oil

    Deep Conditioners

    Carols Daughter Black Vanilla Smoothie

    Every Strand Argan Oil Hair Mask

    Stylers

    For my wash and go style, I’ll be using mainly Kinky Curly Curling Custard, Ecostyler Gel for color treated hair and Tresemme Flawless Conditioner but I plan to experiment with a few more products.

    Styling with Gel: I’ve been using Ecostyler for color treated hair even before I got highlights and I really like it because the hold isn’t as strong as the brand’s other gel that I’ve tried (Olive Oil) which resulted in hard and dry curls. Although, this gel isn’t drying in my experience I plan to reintroduce it to my routine towards the end of the spring when its much warmer.

    While it’s still on the colder side and the weather is transitioning I plan to stick to Kinky Curly Curling Custard which works better for me during colder weather keeping my hair moist, soft and shiny.

    Styling without Gel:

    When I style my hair without gel I like to use Tresemme Naturals Conditioner as my styler.

    Maintenance of Wash and Go style

    One N Only Argan Oil Treatment

    Detangler

    Kinky Curly Curling Custard

    Wash and Go Favorites

    What’s your spring hair routine? What are your favorite products for your wash and go?

  • How I Straighten My Natural Hair and My Straight Hair Regimen

    How I Straighten My Natural Hair and My Straight Hair Regimen

    You may get tired of me saying this but what I love most about natural hair is how versatile it is. I am a big believer that it’s important to switch up your look every now and then to freshen up your image and feel like a new woman. If you’re natural, straightening your hair is a cool way to freshen up your look. I know I feel brand new each time I straighten my hair, but I try to use direct heat sparingly only a few times a year. At any rate, I wanted to share  my straight hair regimen with you, from how I prepare my hair to how I straighten my natural hair and maintain it.

    How I Straighten My Natural Hair and My Straight Hair Regimen

    Pre-Poo

    The night prior to washing my hair, I saturate my scalp and hair with Coconut Oil. Then cover with a plastic cap and head to bed.

    Shampoo

    The following morning, I shampoo my hair with Trader Joe’s Tea Tree Tingle  Shampoo with Peppermint, Tea Tree and Eucalyptus Botanical. This leaves my scalp and hair squeaky clean. This shampoo works well for dandruff or dry scalp issues. I never co-wash my hair prior to straightening it because I want to ensure it is very clean with no residue.

    Deep Condition

    My next step is to apply Giovanni Conditioner, Smooth as Silk for Damaged Hair. To do this, I apply the conditioner in sections and then braid up each section then cover with plastic cap and hot towel or turban.

    Detangle

    Once you’ve washed out the conditioner it’s important to thoroughly detangle hair. I take down each braid, rinse and detangle them using Kinky-Curly Knot Today Leave In Conditioner/Detangler and then re-braid.

    Dry hair

    I’ve used several different methods to dry my hair, you are free to use any but option 1 is my favorite.

    Option 1: Braid hair and allow it to thoroughly air dry.

    Option 2: Braid/twist/roller-set hair and dry using an overhead hair dryer.

    Option 3: Use a blow dryer on low settings and dry each section. Always ensure that you’re using a comb attachment on your hair dryer so you’re not applying too much heat directly to your strands. I like using either  Argan Oil Treatment or Hair Rules Blow It All Out  for blow drying.

    Flat Iron Hair

    Once my hair is completely dry I flat iron it.  Firstly, I apply a heat protector either CHI 44 Iron Guard Thermal Protection Spray or Fantasia Polisher Heat Protector Mist.

    Since, I’ve been natural I tried different methods of straightening my hair, but I’ve found that when I use the chase method my hair is always light and bouncy. To do the chase method, use a fine tooth comb and through a small section of your hair and follow it closely with your flat iron until you get to the full length of your hair. The chase method is fabulous because you don’t have to worry about your hair getting tangled during the process. If you want to try the chase method, a simple YouTube search would give you many chase method tutorials.

    Also, I wanted to add that I always use the lowest setting on my flat iron. If you’re going to purchase a new flat iron, look for one with ceramic plates and adjustable settings. Personally, I use the CHI Hairstyling Iron which I believe is a good investment.

    Night time routine

    While my hair is straight, I wrap it every night and secure using bobby pins and a satin scarf. If I want a bouncy curly look instead of straight look, I do pin curls.

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    Morning Routine

    Brush hair out of wrap and style as desired or remove pin curls and shake. I usually apply a tad bit of Argan oil for shine and moisture.

    This style can last up to 2 weeks, you can also add clip-in extensions for fun. If my hair gets frizzy, I style my hair in a twist-out until I have the opportunity to wash it again.

    After Care

    Since I wear my hair curly 95% of the time, it’s really important to me that my curls bounce back. To address any possible damage to my strands, I always do a protein deep conditioning treatment using ApHogee Intensive Two Minute Keratin Reconstructorafter washing my hair.

    Remember, you don’t have to do all of this at the same time. I get it, you’re a busy mom and this can be incredibly time-consuming.  Break it up, trying to do this all at the same time would not only be overwhelming but you may get impatient and damage your hair. So don’t try straightening your hair at the last minute. If you want to wear it straight on Monday, start by doing a pre-poo on Friday night, wash and condition on Saturday and straighten on Sunday.

    How do you straighten your natural hair? What products do you use?

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