Fashion

  • Modern Mom Style: Makeover Your Look

    This post is sponsored by BabbleBoxx.com. 

    Before I had children, I was so stylish that there was never a moment that I left the house without looking pulled together. I wasn’t always in full makeup with heels but I wearing clothes that reflected my personality was a big part of my identity. In the last few years though, I’ve had tons of days when I stepped out of the house hoping that I didn’t run into anyone that I know. I felt bad, frumpy but just couldn’t manage to look my best and have the kids look their best — I felt like I had to choose between the two and of course I focused on my children. But recently I decided that this must change. Babbleboxx send me their Makeovers + Takeovers box with some goodies that are sure to keep me looking and feeling less frumpy as I navigate through motherhood and I wanted to share them all with you.

    Cute Sneakers

    I’ve always love shoes, after all the name of this blog is Rattles and Heels. But as you can tell from the name of the blog, I’ve mostly been into heels. In the past, I wore sneakers, but I wouldn’t dress up my style with my sneakers. Now, I go to events with sneakers and incorporate them into my pretty outfits, and I get to feel pulled together and cute wearing them. What I love is that there are so many cool sneaker styles out now in fun, modern colors that can easily be incorporated into my wardrobe like these Earth Brand Shoes sneakers that came in my Babbleboxx. I got the Gallivant in blush, and they are right on trend, the color is fabulous and goes with so many things in my closet. It’s feminine and more importantly very comfortable. These are shoes that I feel beautiful wearing them, and they’re comfortable — they feel like I’m walking on a cloud which I need with all the running around I do with three kids.

    Maidenform Sexy Shapewear Strapless Convertible Body Briefer

    Listen, I was beyond excited to receive this gorgeous shapewear. When my oldest was a baby, I never stepped out without wearing shapewear. That’s was my way of feeling good and confident but as the years went by I stopped using it all together. When I received this one I was excited because it’s not just shapewear body briefer, it’s pretty and sexy. I tried it on, and it fits perfectly, smoothing my tummy and giving me an hourglass figure. I’m telling you Maidenform will get my money as I plan to invest in a few more.

    Makeover Your Look

    Aveo Hello

    I’m slightly ashamed to admit this, but I’m hoping y’all wouldn’t judge me. I was prescribed glasses last year, and I’ve hardly ever worn them consistently. This is terrible because I can’t see properly. Since it’s clear that I’m not about that glasses life, I was happy to try out the Aveo Hello contact lenses. If you haven’t heard of Aveo Hello before, they are subscription contact lenses that cost as little as $1 a day. I can see crystal clear with them. They’re designed with advanced technology that incorporates HD vision correction and naturally biocompatible all-day hydration and UV protection. To get started all you do is send them your prescription.

    Makeover Your Look

    Summer’s Eve: Lavender + Camomile Cleansing Wash & Coconut Water Cleansing Cloths

    One thing my kids will tell you is no matter what, I make my showers a priority. I skip hair and makeup but never a shower. I take the baby into the bathroom in her rocker if I have to just to ensure I get my shower in. What I like most about this cleansing wash is how lightweight it feels. It kills odor causing bacteria so you can feel fresh all day long. The Coconut water cleansing wipes are great too. They’re wrapped nice and small so you can use them privately. Head over to Summers Eve to get yours here!

    That’s all the cool things in my box. Let me know which ones are your favorites?

  • 4 Flattering Swimsuits for Moms Under $25

    Self-acceptance is a journey! There are days when I feel okay with my body and others where I feel insecure. My insecurity is based on my mommy tummy or mommy pouch. Don’t get me wrong; I am proud of this body that I’ve been blessed with, strong enough to carry three healthy kids full term but that doesn’t mean I want to put my mommy tummy on display. I’m all about finding styles that complement my body so I can feel my best especially when I am wearing less clothing than I usually do. Two weeks ago, my family went on vacation to the Caribbean, and I bought a bunch of new swimsuits for the trip. Some were major fails while others were just perfect. I wanted to share these 4 flattering swimsuits for moms, these are the ones that made me look and feel my best. They were all from Amazon and all under $30. My opinions are entirely candid, and I’m sharing my affiliate link to each swimsuit.

    off-the-shoulder swimsuit for moms

    Off-the-shoulder one piece

    I think this a swimsuit that will flatter just about every mom body type. I wore this swimsuit in Grand Turk, it’s gorgeous on and has lots of stretch. I got it a size up based on reviews on Amazon, so it felt a tad bit, but I don’t think that was noticeable. It comes in a few other patterns, but this floral design was on trend and my favorite. You can wear it with straps if you want some added support.

    Two – Piece Bikini

    High-waisted bikini | Flattering Swimsuits for Moms

    When I read the review for this swimsuit on Amazon, many of the posters were moms who looked great in it so I decided to try it too. I love the fit of it but if you’re looking high-waisted style this isn’t it. It’s fits just on my belly button and I found myself pulling it up often which is why I wore it with my beach wrap. If you don’t mind that, you would love it.

    High-waisted Tankini 

    I still remember my first tankini, it was yellow with boy shorts and had retro vibe, I guess that’s my style because this stripped blue tankini also gives throwback vibes. Also, it’s truly high-waisted for us moms looking for something that covers our belly button. It was perfect for the water slides and playing with my children in the water park aboard Carnival Horizon.

    High-Waisted Monokini

    High-waisted monokini | Flattering Swimsuits for Moms

    I took a risk when I purchased this monokini because I wasn’t sure how it would look on my body. As I’ve mentioned in the past due to my pregnancies I now have diastaisis recti  so I need a swimsuit with a little bit of support in the tummy area. This swimsuit is perfect, I shared it on my Instagram here during my trip. I got it in my regular size and I was surprised at how well it fit, I’m planning to get it in red too.

     

    What’s your favorite type of swimsuit?

     

     

  • Look and Feel Confident at the Beach After Having a Baby

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    In a few weeks, we are going on our first family vacation since I had the baby almost eight months ago. We’re going to the Caribbean for eight days, and that means lots of beach and pool time. Although I haven’t lost all the weight I gained during my pregnancy, and I’m struggling with diastasis recti. I’m not about to let that ruin my fun. I think it’s important for us to love ourselves and have fun whether we lose those extra 10 pounds we wanted to or not.  I’m proud that this body gave birth to three healthy babies, so I’m determined to look and feel confident at the beach this summer. I wanted to share a few tips on how I am getting my body summer vacation ready because we should be more focused on making memories than worrying:

    Get a bikini Wax

    I can’t imagine going off on this vacation without getting a bikini wax! I love how confident I feel after getting a fresh bikini wax, and I am serious about my routine during the summer. This summer for the first time I tried out Waxing The City at their Garden City location in Long Island and I have to say I was impressed.

    I am a germaphobe so I checked their website before going to ensure that they didn’t do double dipping or have practices that would make me uncomfortable. Once I got there, the room was immaculate and modern, and I learned that they clean between each procedure.

    Products recommended for me.

    My Cerologist Megan did an excellent job making my skin silky smooth and recommended products that will help improve my skin. The experience was painless and she kept me distracted by talking to me the entire time. If you’ve never gotten a bikini wax before, you need to try it this summer. If you’ve never tried Waxing the City, they offer 50% off your first service and they do eyebrows too. Visit waxingthecity.com to schedule your service. They’ve done over one million bikini waxes so you can go ahead and try one. I plan to go back and get my brows done there since my usual lady has moved away. Another client was there during my visit and she was brow goals and she told me she doesn’t let anyone else touch her brows, they even have a full line of brow products along with other products to help you care for your skin after your waxing.

    I started getting bikini waxes a few years ago because I was experiencing too much irritation using hair removal creams. Once I learned that waxing has more extended results I was sold. Also, over the years I’ve noticed that the hair has started to grow back much finer and some of my girlfriends who’ve been waxing for longer than I have said they hair stopped growing altogether.

    Flattering Swimsuits

    I’ve been doing some swimsuit shopping, and I have to admit that it’s hard to find swimsuits for moms that doesn’t look like something for your granny. I still love trends and want to look great, so I’m going for prints, colors that look great on my complexion, off the shoulder, high waisted bikinis and peplum style swimsuits these all look great and feel great one.

    Show off the body part you’re proud of!

    So you’re not going to find me in any of those cute two-piece outfits with my tummy on display, so I’m sticking to styles that look great on most of us moms like this off-the-shoulder high-slit dress I bought for our trip.

    Speak Kindly about your Body.

    Last but not least I am doing all of this by speaking kindly about my body. Taking good care of my body and refraining from even making jokes about things that I don’t like. I have two daughters, and I want them to always feel confident in their bodies.

    What are your tips to look and feel confident at the beach after having a baby?

     

     

    I was selected for this opportunity as a member of CLEVER and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.