New Born

  • Early Hearing Detection Screening in Babies

    This post is sponsored by the CDC’s National Center on Birth Defects and Developmental Disabilities (NCBDDD).

    Last Mother’s Day, I announced my pregnancy and here we are a year later with an almost six-month-old baby girl. Six months is a huge deal; it means we’ve made it past half of her first year and through some significant milestones. One of the milestones that I take very seriously is hearing. We don’t talk about hearing loss enough because it is one of the most common birth defects with up to 12,000 newborn babies are born deaf or hard of hearing every year. Yes, this number is alarming but what’s important it to find out as early as possible. My mantras information is power, so I wanted to share a few things that all of us moms should know about hearing loss.

    Early Hearing Detection Screening leads to normal speech

    All three of my kids got their hearing screenings as newborns at the hospital before we were discharged. I was relieved when the nurse wheeled the baby in with the good news that she passed  her hearing screening back in November when she was born. If you’re worried about the hearing screening, know that it’s short, easy and not painful. Your baby would probably sleep through the screening. Early hearing detection screening in babies should be done at one, three and six months of age according to the CDC’s National Center on Birth Defects and Developmental Disabilities. Hearing Professionals use 1-3-6 benchmarks as seen in the infographic below.

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    Early Hearing Detection Screening in Babies

    So my daughter passed her hearing screening at the hospital but if she didn’t that would mean that she would need a full hearing test as soon as possible, but no later than three months of age. If your child needs one, do it right away, this isn’t something you want to procrastinate about, the timing matters. If the need arises for early intervention, don’t be shy to talk to your healthcare provider about your concerns to get started right away. Our job as parents is to advocate for our babies so learning what the best options are for early detection is important. Keep in mind that if left undetected, a hearing loss would have an impact on other milestones such as speech and language development, as well as his or her thinking, learning, and social skills.

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    Signs and Symptoms

    When I took my son in for his four year wellness check, I requested that our pediatrician give him a hearing screening because he would complaining about loud noises. I wasn’t sure if it was just a low tolerance for noise or a hearing problem even though he passed the hearing screening before but I preferred to be safe than sorry. It turned out that his hearing was fine but I’m glad that I got him checked. I always tell my mom friends, if you think something is off don’t shy away from asking, right away. Every child is different but here are a few signs in babies and children of hearing loss according to the CDC:

    Signs in Babies
    • Does not startle at loud noises.
    • Does not turn to the source of a sound after 6 months of age.
    • Does not say single words, such as “dada” or “mama” by one year of age.
    • Turns head when he or she sees you but not if you only call out his or her name. This sometimes is mistaken for not paying attention or just ignoring, but could be the result of a partial or complete hearing loss.
    • Seems to hear some sounds but not others.

    Signs in Children
    • Speech is delayed.
    • Speech is not clear.
    • Does not follow directions. This sometimes is mistaken for not paying attention or just ignoring, but could be the result of a partial or complete hearing loss.
    • Often says, “Huh?”
    • Turns the TV volume up too high.

    As I mentioned last month, I use the CDC Milestone Tracker app to monitor my baby’s milestones. Hearing loss can affect other milestones so if you see your child not reaching all of her milestones, request a hearing screening. I hope that this post is helpful but if you need more information, head over to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, National Center on Birth Defects and Developmental Disabilities website to learn more. If your child has hearing loss, read A Parent’s Guide to Hearing Loss for detailed information to help you make decisions.

    Early Hearing Detection Screening

  • Ways to Support a Friend with a Newborn

         This post is part of a paid partnership with BJ’s Wholesale Club. All opinions are based on my experience as a member.

     

    My first friend who had a baby did so while I was still in college. I was excited; I couldn’t wait to see her baby’s little face and to be an honorary auntie. When I found out she had given birth via MySpace I decided to go to the hospital to visit them. I remember calling to ask her if I should bring anything and her voice sounded a bit weird. I went anyway and while I will forever hold onto the memories of seeing and holding her baby for the first time (possibly the first baby I held correctly), I cringe whenever I think about how awkward the visit felt. She needed rest and bonding time, and there I was interrupting an intimate moment. I didn’t stay for a long time, but I got my first lesson on how to support a friend with a newborn.  Over the past few years, I learned more lessons as more of my friends became moms as well as myself (three times). I wanted to share a few thoughtful ways to support a friend with a newborn:

    Give her space to adjust.

    I assumed it was okay to visit my friend without giving her space or having a conversation to determine what would have made her most comfortable on that day. I could have done more to support her so that’s what I do for my friends now, I ask them how they would like me to support them.

    Bring diapers and wipes for growing baby.

    When my friends reach out and ask me what gift they should bring for the baby, I always request diapers and wipes as gifts because we can never have too much.

    Okay, it is possible to get too much before I had the baby I got more newborn and size one diapers than we needed. So bring your friends diapers size 2 and above, the baby will grow into them, and she will be happy to have them on hand. I like the Berkley Jensen Ultra Absorbent Diapers from BJ’s Wholesale Club because they’re hypoallergenic, perfume and latex free. The Berkley Jensen Ultra Sensitive Baby Wipes are my favorite baby wipes as I mentioned before. I feel comfortable using them on my baby’s skin because they’re very gentle on her skin and have no alcohol and parabens. Plus, all Berkley Jensen products are backed by BJ’s 100% Money-Back Guarantee so you know you’re getting – and giving – the best quality products.

    Give a gift that makes motherhood easier.

    I have three little ones, so I understand the importance of convenience. A BJ’s Wholesale Club membership is a thoughtful gift because it will make life easier. Sometimes convenience means sacrificing quality but not at BJ’s; I buy the organic and natural products that I feel most comfortable with for my little one like Happy Baby. If you’ve been following for a while, you know Happy Family is one of the baby food brands that I trust, and I’ve even had the chance to make pouches with fellow mom and Happy Family CEO Shazi Visram.  I’m excited to start this baby on their Happy Baby Superfood Puffs when she starts crawling because her brother loved it. Besides organic baby food, BJ’s carries Aveeno Baby Calm Wash with lavender that I like to use for nighttime baths.

    It’s the gift that would keep on giving, especially since members savings average about $500 a year. To make the gifting even better you can sign up for a membership and start referring friends by visiting BJs.com/bestie. For every one of your friends that signs up, you both will receive a $25 gift card.

    Give her a gift that’s independent of motherhood.

    I love when my friends remind me how amazing I was before I had anyone to call me mom. I’ve shared before that I love drawing and a friend got me a cute gift with pencils and a pretty drawing pad once that reminded me of Adanna and made me feel really good. So think about the people in your life and the things they loved before they became a mom as a guide for gifting.

     Ways to support a friend with a baby

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  • Babywearing: Tips for Baby Naps on the go

    Thank you Baby K’tan for sponsoring this post!  

    New York City winters would give you such a bad case of cabin fever that you would find an excuse to go outside every day once spring (really) starts.  This year, my cabin fever intensified because I stayed indoors even more since baby girl was born in the middle of the cold and flu season. Now that it’s spring, I’m celebrating our new freedom and although she can’t talk I get the vibe that she is too. Fortunately for us, living in New York City means that there is always something to do and even walking around the block can be an adventure. As I mentioned before with this baby, I feel free as a bird because I’m babywearing. Putting her in the baby carrier and heading out the door is effortless with her snug next to me, and I know she feels safe. So much so, she loves to nap on me which is a great relief because I do not have to stress about rushing back home for nap time. I know moms worry about nap time, it’s natural to feel that way, so I wanted to share a few tips baby naps on the go:

    Babywearing: Tips for Baby Naps on the go

    Keep a breathable blanket handy.

    In addition to her Baby K’tan Print Carrier (isn’t it pretty?) I walk with her Baby K’tan Newborn Baby K’tan® Newborn Swaddle & Toddler blanket. She’s had these blankets (it’s a set of two) since she was two months old and we’ve used them to swaddle, protect her, as a nursing cover and at other times for comfort. It’s fascinating how much privacy this blanket gives us, I don’t always feel comfortable (or safe) nursing in public, so it’s also comforting to me. This blanket fits into the tiny pocket of my baby carrier, so it’s always handy. It’s chemical-free, azo-dye-free, formaldehyde free, 100% all natural cotton and mesh, so I have no reason to worry about her snuggling with it or attempting to play peekaboo with it.

    Babywearing: Tips for Baby Naps on the go

    Make sure your baby doesn’t get hot.

    I always dress my little lady in layers based on the temperature, but while we’re out, I check on her often to see if she’s sweating to remove a layer if I need to for her safety. The last thing I want is for her to be hot and uncomfortable during her nap especially this time of the year.

    Babywearing: Tips for Baby Naps on the go

    Don’t wake a sleeping baby.

    A few weeks ago, I walked to our local bookstore for storytime with the baby, and she fell asleep in the baby carrier on our way there. I was bummed but I let her sleep, and towards the end, she woke up on her own, happy and alert. I know if I woke her up when we arrived she would have been no fun. I’ve also noticed that when I’m wearing her, and she wakes up, she peeks a few times and checks out our location before letting me know she’s awake.

    Babywearing: Tips for Baby Naps on the go

    As you can tell, I’m enjoying the freedom that babywearing is giving me this spring, and I hope you are too and these tips help you to go out and create some beautiful memories with your baby. Find my super cute dandelion Baby K’tan Baby Carrier on their site along with their amazing blankets.

    What are your tips for baby naps on the go?