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  • How to Stick to Your Family’s Entertainment Budget

    This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Green Dot. All opinions are 100% mine.

    We love living in New York City! The museums, shows, food and famous attractions all make it an exciting place to be but enjoying everything the city offers definitely comes with a price tag. We try to do things like visit new exhibits, check new shops and shows with the kids regularly. When we started to look at our expenses and noticed that a great chunk was going towards entertainment especially dining out and we decided to create a budget and stick to it. Well, we didn’t know how the stick to it part was going to work out initially and it was trial and error until we found a way to make it all work. We love to have a good time but we needed some parameters to be responsible for the fun. Here a few ways to stick to your family’s entertainment budget:

    Spend on quality experiences

    How to Stick to Your Family's Entertainment Budget We like to make really informed decisions about how we use our family’s entertainment budget. One of our top values is good experiences so we strive to always provide that for the kids. I want them to look back on all of the cool things we did together and places we went. We don’t go or do everything but we make conscious decisions about we do and it’s usually well worth our time and money. For instance, we no longer eat at random places but only at restaurants that offer good quality food and atmosphere.

    Use a cash back debit card.

    Putting aside a specific amount of money every month for our family’s entertainment is much easier with a debit card. We’ve been able to stick the budget because we can only spend our balance.

    We use the Green Dot Bank Cash Back Visa Debit Card for this type of spending. It’s a smart bank account with no unfair overdraft fees (other fees and limits apply). I’m all about finding unique ways to save money and getting 5% back up to $100 annually, when I used my Green Dot Bank issued card to pay for our entertainment expenses means more money to spend on having fun in the future.

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    Recently, I grabbed veggie burgers with my daughter at one of our favorite restaurants in Brooklyn and we used the Green Dot Debit Card to pay for our meal. It’s not a gift card or credit card but rather a debit card so it’s just the money that’s in our account that we have access to. I’ve been able to set alerts to monitor my account activity as well as the balance of the account. Also, you can set them up to receive your direct deposits or pay your bills online if you have a personalized card.

    Visit places on slow days.

    Try finding heavily discounted tickets for unpopular date and times. You can also try sites that specialize in finding local offers. Some attractions have free days or hours so if you can take advantage of those as well.

    Pair free and paid events together

    To feel richer, go to free and paid events on the same day. For instance, you can visit a pop-up free museum and go for brunch the same day.

    Educate children on the importance of a budget.

    I watched a reality show recently and found it hard to believe that a mom and wife kept saying “Who cares about the budget?” I’m a mom of three and with private school tuition and plans for my trio to go to a good college, the budget truly matters. I want them to be financial literate and to make good decisions like most families, we’re all about living our best life responsibly. I hope these tips are helpful for those of you who are looking for ways to rein in your family’s spending a bit.

    What are your tips for minimizing your family’s entertainment expense budget?

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  • My Babywearing Journey

    This post is part of sponsored ambassadorship with Baby K’tan. All opinions are based on my experience.

    Ever discovered something that makes you want a do-over? That’s how I feel about babywearing. It’s not that I never knew about babywearing, I did. My mom actually was big on babywearing when I was an infant as you can see, so naturally, she advised me to do the same when I became a mom too. My babywearing journey started in October of 2010 when a few days postpartum with my oldest child, I went for a walk wearing her and my back hurt so much I reasoned it was just not for me never considering that it was just that baby carrier. My husband wore her a few times after to take her on the subway but besides that, the baby carrier collected more dust than memories.

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    Fast forward 7 years and I found myself revisiting my stance on babywearing a few weeks after my third child was born. She wanted to be held and I needed to cook for her siblings, clean, run errands etc. One evening I was trying to help my son in the shower and she was crying to be held, my son was shouting “Mommy the baby is crying!” and it was such a chaotic moment out of desperation I grabbed a baby carrier that I was gifted and started wearing her and she was immediately happy and fell asleep. I was surprised but so happy that I did it again the next day and soon we were both hooked. We’ve tried a few different carriers since and I fell in love with the Baby K’tan Breeze. It’s lightweight,  great on my back, easy to use and made from the softest material comfortable for both the baby and me.

    With two free hands, I’ve found that we gained the freedom to live more and get things done. Baby girl is definitely the boss of the house but this is one way to take back some of that control from her so I don’t feel like I’m drowning. I’m all for a happier baby overall and she loves being close to me and there is nothing that can replace that feeling of security and love for her.

    Those of you who follow my Instagram stories heard the news last week but if you missed it, I’m happy to share that I’m going to be partnering with Baby K’tan to share my babywearing journey over the next few months as a brand ambassador. A few of you shared that you love Baby K’tan baby carriers too so I encourage you all to share your stories on social media using #BKJourney so we can inspire and learn from each other.

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    All parents should consult the Baby K’tan website and/or their Baby K’tan Baby Carrier instruction manual before first use to ensure a safe and happy experience. Consult the Baby K’tan FAQ’s for additional tips and support.

     

  • Tips For Stress-Free School Mornings

    This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of Ivory. The opinions and text are all mine.

    Mornings used to be crazy in our home! Getting two kids dressed in uniforms, fed and to school on time all while beating traffic and looking halfway decent was just too much pressure. I would be so stressed I would cause confusion for the kids and most days make them anxious. I remember one morning, I was in a scurry searching for my keys and frazzled while my daughter who was standing by the door with her backpack on and looking very impatient said “Great, we’re going to be late!” I stopped right away as I realized she was starting to mirror my behavior, I knew I had to stop. I don’t want them to grow up thinking this is the way to start their days.

    Since then, I’ve laid off all of the frantic drama and our mornings are much lighter and flow easily. While we’re still on a schedule, I don’t think the kids feel as rushed as they once did unless we wake up late. I know I’m not the only mom who works against time on school mornings so I wanted to share tips for stress-free school mornings to make “rush hour” a thing of the past:

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    Morning showers

    After realizing how sluggish my kids were, I knew they needed something besides me singing “Rise and Shine!” to get them energized and perky. An early morning shower turned out to be the solution to beat the sluggishness. Initially, I was worried adding a shower to our routine may slow them down even more. But, they move a lot brisker and takes them a shorter time to complete morning tasks they used to drag out. Bonus – they feel fresh and clean for the day. I’m all for simplicity so I keep Ivory Original 3-bar, Ivory Original Body Wash and Ivory Free & Gentle Body Wash with Pear & Sandalwood in our bathroom. This body wash is formulated to cleanse and nourish skin with the #1 Dermatologist-Recommended moisturizing ingredient.

    Tips For Stress-Free School Mornings

    I was raised using Ivory and although the products have a new look, it’s the same pure formula of my childhood days. It even smells the same and if you grew up using Ivory too I know you love the smell. Ivory has been around for 138 years and is a brand I continue to use now that I am a mother, a product I can trust on the skin of the little people who I care about the most. Ivory is made of 99.44% pure ingredients and Ivory Original Body Wash has a gentle formula free of dyes or heavy perfumes. The kids are usually out of the shower in about 10 minutes and soon as they’re out, they get dressed and have their breakfast.

     

    Always start “too early”

    I wake up much earlier these days, forcing myself to become a morning person and it’s really helping. This not only gives me wiggle room to slow down, but it also gives me time to take care of myself or tend to the baby, if I need to.

    Set multiple alarms

    I usually set 2 alarms about 5 minutes apart, but if I’m really tired the night before I set 3. One thing I do is use music that makes me happy in an attempt to have a less stressful morning. The last thing I need is an annoying alarm.

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    Affirmations

    I started doing affirmations with my oldest child when she was almost two years old. We always affirm it’s going to be a good day, well my son likes to say “It’s going to be a GIANT day!” I also have them do power poses just to improve their self-confidence.

    Be calm no matter what

    Like I said above, I used to be a frantic mess on school mornings and I would be stressed, worried, rushing or searching. Now, I’m focused on doing everything calmly – I find things faster and I am able to think about solutions to issues that unexpectedly pop up.

    Listen to positive or educational shows on the way to school

    Once you’re out of the door, keep the warm vibe to set your kids up for a good day at school. I listen to podcasts or audiobooks with my kids in the car on the way to school.

    What are some of your tips for stress-free school mornings?

    Tips For Stress-Free School Mornings